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In our 20s and 30s, we are full of energy and have a lot of dreams. We've done a lot of addition. Every time we see something we love, we add it to our to-do list. That's what we want to achieve in the future.

At work, we dream of great success. When we go shopping, we dream of gorgeous, expensive clothes. When we go out to eat, we want delicious food, even though the fat content is sometimes very high. When we go out, we dream of going to famous places. During the gala, wanting to be the centerpiece, etc. Of course, everyone has the right to do a lot of addition like that at this age group. Without big dreams there are no great successes, and furthermore, no one taxes dreams.

Entering the age of 40, there are things we have done, there are still many things left. This is the time when we try to realize those unfulfilled dreams. We run after things we don't have yet. And of course we are in a race against time, often without caring about our health. Oh, that's understandable.

A long-time classmate once shared. After her 30s, she no longer sees gorgeous clothes and expensive shoes as her destination. She said: if you have a lot of money (and I know you are very well-off), you don't buy expensive shoes, as you wished when you were a girl. She continued, I carry it under my feet, who knows. As long as my shoes fit my feet, are comfortable and look temporary, it's OK. She also added: the outer outfits are no longer something she cares much about. In her late 40s, she took care of investing in other things: investing in health, in many different forms.

A classmate in the past, who had a "stroke" at the age of 40, and then was infected 2 more times, once said: At this age, health is number one. In the past, he was a cool investor. It means a lot of success. You can neglect a lot of opportunities for your family, you don't care much about your health, it's all focused on work and work. Looking back now, he said: sorry, what a pity. For rework, he must have chosen a different investment path: investing in health.

I agree with my friend: at 40, cross out a lot of the goals you dream of. Focus on a few goals that you haven't accomplished.

Entering the age of 50, do subtraction, and boldly subtract useless things. Because we don't have much energy left. We no longer have the same sensitivity and creativity as before. The 50-year-old car has damaged many things. Someone has already started... forget. I was going to go to the back of the house to get something. Walking from front to back, forgetting. I was about to call my friend to tell him something, picked up the phone, and then forgot what I wanted to say.

Also, entering the age of 50, hair has started to change color (and some people have started very early). Not only that, the yarn fell all over the house. The skin has shown signs of aging spots. Walking up the short slope has already begun to exhale.

This morning, I heard that my friend was battling cancer. Hearing him say that he would no longer be on fb during this period of living next to death, my heart suddenly felt disappointed. At the age of 50, he is trying to fight for his life with the god of death. Everything in life is no longer important. Cars, houses, savings accounts, long outings, duck days, date nights singing with friends, nothing is important, nothing is to worry about. He had been doing subtraction for everything, months ago.

So at the age of 50, don't continue to waste your health in exchange for things outside your body. Let's make subtraction the most practical. Subtract the impractical social interactions. Subtract the distant material passions. Subtract the unreachable desires. Let go of the gossip (from others). It's enough to cherish the social relationships you have. At this age, we have gone through so many experiences, so, on the other halfway, we should walk casually. For things that we are powerless to change, don't be too preoccupied and clingy.

The more subtractions we do, the more ... easy to live, easy to be happy, and my heart is less hurt.

Enjoy the blue sky!

Source: Facebook Tao Le

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